meFitness

How are you at dealing with your finances? Do you have the ability to manage your finances in a wise way where you do not spend more money than you make?  And if you don't have that ability, those skills, are you developing them. From time to time, it is good to focus on your relationship with money and how it makes you feel. This helps you become aware of any negative, unconscious habits you have built within you related to how you deal with money. These can be small things, like buying things you no longer need just because you have developed the habit of buying them. Like me for instance, I had developed this habit of ordering a box of pencils and a few erasers every month. Over the past year, my daughter stopped writing on paper as much as she did pre-covid, and we had boxes of pencils and dozens of erasers piling up in the house. But when I would go to the stationer, I would smilingly order another box. 🙀🙀 Exactly! Let us break these habits and reign in our cash. and then we

It is so common and natural that we feel scared or uncomfortable sharing certain things with our partners /lovers. We have been conditioned that we shouldn't share specific things with our partners because otherwise they may judge us or leave us. This mentality doesn't allow true connection and intimacy to occur in a relationship.  I have learnt over the years that I have fooled myself with the belief that what I am hiding from my partner is good for both of us. And the years I have lived have taught me my mistake.  Hiding and not sharing uncomfortable things creates a sort of mental distance between partners. And with each thing we hide this distance gets bigger. With each white lie this distance gets filled with a mental brick and with each lie this space and the bricks within them seem to be covered in some form of mental concrete. And with time we are staring at a mental wall between us.  Don't be a fool. We must learn to build gardens with our partners and not a wall